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When you lie to someone you are taking away their choices. You are actively deceiving someone in order to help yourself. It’s selfish. Can lying be justified? In dating relationships, trust is key. If you lie right out of the gate, the future of the relationship is pretty much doomed. You’ve presented yourself as something that you’re not. The other party will fall/has fallen for someone who doesn’t exist. I don’t know if time is even a factor, finding out you’ve been deceived over a year’s time or after one date is an awful feeling.

It sucks to find out something/someone isn’t what/who you believed it/them to be.

∞ 2 weeks ago by sdot

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∞ 4 weeks ago by tumblinas

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I guess it isn't forgiving

Can you forgive and decide that the person you’ve forgiven should disappear from your life? If you don’t trust them? If, outside of hello and goodbye you don’t want to talk to them?

I don’t give trust like Oprah gives away KFC. I’m dysfunctional that way and I accept that.

∞ 1 month ago by sdot

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I hate that you took me for granted.

littlemiss:

I hate that I was the only one trying to make it work.
I hate that I put you first but you put me second.
I hate that you can just turn the other cheek.
I hate that you just gave up.

∞ 2 months ago by break-fastofchampions

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How many ex's is acceptable to have as friends on Facebook/MySpace/etc. when in a relationship?

I think I may be pushing my limits.

∞ 2 months ago by askvero

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For the Ladies - Sexy Adidas Interactive Campaign!

Pick two athletic studs and watch them swap jerseys. Yum!

∞ 2 months ago by vickistep

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Self Tanner, Fake Bake, Au Natural or Heavy SPF?

Which way do you tan (if at all)? I’m curious to all of your thoughts. To me fake baking is so passe and self tanner is so hard to make look natural. Thoughts?

∞ 3 months ago by mascarah

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I don’t believe in changing my style because something’s a trend. People are mislead; they think because it’s a trend, they should do it. And it’s not going to work.

Rachel Zoe (via ellenclare).

∞ 3 months ago by ellenclare

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Loving this new Kate Moss Longchamp ad. The vibrant colors, her perfect hair. Beautiful.

∞ 4 months ago by mascarah

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In spite of all her prudence, accidents will happen: wine is spilled on her dress, a cigarette burns it; this marks the disappearance of the luxurious and festive creature who bore herself with smiling pride in the ballroom, for she now assumes the serious and severe look of the housekeeper; it becomes all at once evident that her toilette was not a set piece like fireworks, a transient burst of splendor, intended for lavish illumination of a moment. It is rather a rich possession, capital goods and investment; it has meant sacrifice; its loss is a real disaster. Spots, botched dressmaking, bad hairdo’s are catastrophes still more serious than a burnt roast or a broken vase.

De Beauvoir

∞ 4 months ago by yourpalmal

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