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So there’s this girl…

…who constantly calls, texts, act inappropriately towards my boyfriend.  This has been going on for two years.  She knows who I am and that I have been seriously dating him since we were 17 (a high school sweetheart is something I never thought I would have).  He has repeatedly reminded her that he is not available, actually introduced me to her as his girlfriend, as well as gotten into arguments with her about her tendencies.  All of this to no avail.  

I have been present when she has called him 8 times in a row on a Thursday evening while she has been out and he was staying over by me.  I have been at a bar with my girl friends and she has been there too;  whenever she sees me, she turns to whatever friend she is with an rushes out.  At one time, she has confronted my boyfriend about be, whining about how I hate her;  he told her that I don’t know her but I know of her, and I know what she does.  (Frankly, if I were her I would be concerned about the prospects of running into me at the wrong time.)

I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship, but I can’t help but think that there is something that he is more responsible for by way of getting her to stop.  Or is this just the kind of situation that you have to accept? Advice please! I feel like I’ve done all I can do besides straight out confront the girl.