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When you lie to someone you are taking away their choices. You are actively deceiving someone in...

Fri, 12 Jun 2009 22:41:30 -0400

When you lie to someone you are taking away their choices. You are actively deceiving someone in order to help yourself. It’s selfish. Can lying be justified? In dating relationships, trust is key. If you lie right out of the gate, the future of the relationship is pretty much doomed. You’ve presented yourself as something that you’re not. The other party will fall/has fallen for someone who doesn’t exist. I don’t know if time is even a factor, finding out you’ve been deceived over a year’s time or after one date is an awful feeling.

It sucks to find out something/someone isn’t what/who you believed it/them to be.

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Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:51:47 -0400

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I guess it isn't forgiving

Wed, 06 May 2009 21:16:08 -0400

Can you forgive and decide that the person you’ve forgiven should disappear from your life? If you don’t trust them? If, outside of hello and goodbye you don’t want to talk to them?

I don’t give trust like Oprah gives away KFC. I’m dysfunctional that way and I accept that.

I hate that you took me for granted.

Wed, 22 Apr 2009 00:30:00 -0400

littlemiss:

I hate that I was the only one trying to make it work.
I hate that I put you first but you put me second.
I hate that you can just turn the other cheek.
I hate that you just gave up.

How many ex's is acceptable to have as friends on Facebook/MySpace/etc. when in a relationship?

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:18:30 -0400

I think I may be pushing my limits.

For the Ladies - Sexy Adidas Interactive Campaign!

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 14:50:04 -0400

For the Ladies - Sexy Adidas Interactive Campaign! : Pick two athletic studs and watch them swap jerseys. Yum!

Self Tanner, Fake Bake, Au Natural or Heavy SPF?

Thu, 02 Apr 2009 12:10:28 -0400

Which way do you tan (if at all)? I’m curious to all of your thoughts. To me fake baking is so passe and self tanner is so hard to make look natural. Thoughts?

"I don’t believe in changing my style because something’s a trend. People are mislead;..."

Thu, 19 Mar 2009 14:49:10 -0400

“I don’t believe in changing my style because something’s a trend. People are mislead; they think because it’s a trend, they should do it. And it’s not going to work.”

- Rachel Zoe (via ellenclare).

Loving this new Kate Moss Longchamp ad. The vibrant colors, her...

Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:25:11 -0500

Loving this new Kate Moss Longchamp ad. The vibrant colors, her perfect hair. Beautiful.

"In spite of all her prudence, accidents will happen: wine is spilled on her dress, a cigarette..."

Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:23:10 -0500

“In spite of all her prudence, accidents will happen: wine is spilled on her dress, a cigarette burns it; this marks the disappearance of the luxurious and festive creature who bore herself with smiling pride in the ballroom, for she now assumes the serious and severe look of the housekeeper; it becomes all at once evident that her toilette was not a set piece like fireworks, a transient burst of splendor, intended for lavish illumination of a moment. It is rather a rich possession, capital goods and investment; it has meant sacrifice; its loss is a real disaster. Spots, botched dressmaking, bad hairdo’s are catastrophes still more serious than a burnt roast or a broken vase.”

- De Beauvoir

Seriously, what are you waiting for?

Mon, 23 Feb 2009 11:12:00 -0500

At some point, it’s like - Tell me what on earth you are waiting for? I want to scream it legitimately, without manipulation, without trying to score any points. I want an answer. Do you think there’s a chance that we might be temporary, might still wander off on our separate ways? Because you say that’s an impossibility. You say Forever but your actions add this tiny, italic probably.

I don’t understand how long you intend to stand at the edge of this plank and assess the depth and temperature of the water below. You climbed up here to dive in, right? Are you waiting to see if I change for the better or for the worse? Are you waiting to see if something shinier comes along?

Let me make it clear how much I loathe playing this role. This bullshit, leaving-the-man-in-charge-of-my-destiny, waiting to be chosen arrangement is humiliating. I was fine on my own. Fine. I was not looking for this, but now that all this happiness is here, I’m not going to spend the rest of my life tiptoeing around it. I want it. Forever. But this stereotypical costume of Woman Waiting for Commitment fucking chafes. There is no diamond ring I want, I have no desire to just be married in general: Only a very specific desire to finally, firmly sew my lot in life to yours.

And I’m starting to wonder what about me is not good enough, not magnetic enough to make you eager to do the same.

Friends

Sat, 21 Feb 2009 16:15:23 -0500

It was great to see him. I’d forgotten how funny he was. Or how much I like talking to him. It was kind of weird too. I managed to stay out of my head for the duration, which all but subtracted the small amount of apprehension I’d been feeling. Why? I don’t know really. A small part of me was jealous when our waitress flirted with him. Or maybe because I found myself sitting in front of my building too soon. This is what we are now……….. And it just doesn’t do to deny what is…

Help a sister out! ;)

Mon, 09 Feb 2009 09:03:36 -0500

Hi girlies,

I’ve entered a tattoo contest sponsored by one of Philly’s radio stations and I would lovelovelove your help via a vote!! You can do this by visiting radio1045.com beginning at 9 p.m. tonight. This contest is all about music! My tattoo is in lyrics group 2 - #15 (Anne-Marie D.). You can read a little blurb about my tattoo when you go to vote, and there’s something in it for you, too! You could win $104.50 - who doesn’t want a little extra cash?!

Thankyouthankyouthankyou <3

Open Your Eyes.

Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:46:54 -0500

Every minute from this minute now

We can do what we like anywhere

I want so much to open your eyes

‘Cause I need you to look into mine

Tell me that you’ll open your eyes

All this feels strange and untrue

And I won’t waste a minute without you

-Snow Patrol.

via ellenclare.

"Wouldn’t it be the best damn day if we all took time to breathe?"

Thu, 05 Feb 2009 09:30:20 -0500

“Wouldn’t it be the best damn day if we all took time to breathe?”

- O.A.R. - Risen

Even in the dead of winter this is still an addiction I am...

Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:43:08 -0500

Even in the dead of winter this is still an addiction I am actively fueling.

Color Me Badd - I Wanna Sex You Up I’m interested to know...

Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:40:22 -0500

Color Me Badd - I Wanna Sex You Up

I’m interested to know how many other gals have this on their go-to dance mix? Years later, I still love this song.

"A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can from a mountain top ."

Mon, 26 Jan 2009 17:58:31 -0500

“A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can from a mountain top .”

- Unknown

Shaving...

Sat, 24 Jan 2009 16:31:21 -0500

It’s for the birds. Really, I just shaved my legs yesterday and already there is stuble. What’s a girl to do? Do you think waxing is the solution? Or how about lazer derm? Have any of you tried alternate ways to shaving? Any good tips on the cheap?

Cheers,

Lissa

new presidential designer.

Fri, 23 Jan 2009 00:19:39 -0500

word on the wire is that interior designer Michael Smith was chosen to decorate the interior of the 55,000 square foot White House for newly inaugurated President Obama and his family.